This is a true statement. Although, most of my life I have felt I owe everyone something. Why? I don’t fucking know. It’s still in my head, and I don’t know how or when it got put there, at least that I remember.
But, I have the ability to remove it. It will probably take time. Untraining your brain is not a small task. Not feeling guilty about it is even harder. There was never an obligation, it only lived in my head. Rent free. Now, it is time to serve the eviction notice and reclaim that space for productive thoughts.